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Ronny CarreraMarriage mentor · New Marriage of God
Your marriage isn't over.
It's about to start again.
One-on-one marriage mentoring based on a proven biblical method: restore your relationship with God first, and your marriage begins to be restored as a natural consequence.
- Since 2009
- Hundreds of marriages mentored
- From Latin America, Spain, Italy and Germany
- 10.7K subscribers on YouTube
The reality they arrive with
They usually arrive separately. Desperate. Some without hope.
Suspected infidelity, abandonment, control, wounds from years past that no longer have a name. If you feel your marriage has hit a dead end, I want to say this clearly: God's plans for your life and your marriage are good and perfect — even now.
The New Marriage of God (NMD) method
Three steps, in that order, that change everything
Step I
Listen to the Father
Before acting on the marriage, we learn to stop and listen to what God is already saying about your situation.
Step II
Understand the Father
Understanding His character and His plans changes the way we interpret our spouse's wounds, fears, and decisions.
Step III
Obey the Father
Marriage restoration comes almost as a natural consequence of obedience — not as the goal forced from the start.
Who's mentoring you
Ronny Carrera
I am a survivor of infidelity in my own marriage. Out of the experience that tore infidelity out of my life came, first, a worship ministry as a percussionist, and later a clearer calling: helping other marriages not give up. In 2009 I founded "No More Divorces," which over time became New Marriage of God.
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Real stories
Marriages that already crossed to the other side
Names changed for confidentiality.
Juan and Sandra · Mexico
Juan sought desperate help on social media, convinced his wife was unfaithful. Working through the message of the Church and the work of Jesus together, Juan realized that infidelity had never happened: it was a product of his imagination and a controlling attitude that was wearing Sandra down.
When Juan changed, Sandra regained the trust and security she had lost — and it was she who asked to live together again.
Lorena and Ricardo · Guatemala
Lorena discovered a relationship outside the marriage and asked Ricardo to leave. The pain that followed led her to write in the early hours of the morning, seeking help. We worked through the underlying wounds that, regardless of anyone's faith, push a spouse to seek relief outside the marriage.
Today Lorena and Ricardo are together, they have their own business, and their two children are already attending university. They remain grateful for the new life they built.
Miroslava and Román · Chile
A history of infidelity in her family made Miroslava see threats where there were none with Román. We came to understand together that love is sown before expecting a harvest, and that her husband wasn't her property, but someone to love first.
Today Miroslava and Román, along with their two daughters, live happily in Chile.
How we work together
1:1 mentoring by video call
A personal, confidential process, guided by someone who also went through this and now devotes his life to helping others cross to the other side.
Diagnostic Session
$35 USD / single session
- Individual video call
- An honest diagnosis of your situation
- A clear first step for your specific case
- No commitment afterward
Full program
Six NMD Sessions
$115 USD / full program
- 6 one-on-one video call sessions
- 3-step method: Listen, Understand, Obey
- Mentoring tailored to your case
- Tools to work on as a couple
Payment by bank transfer or PayPal. Once your session is confirmed, I will send you the details.
Frequently asked questions
Before you write to me
What if my spouse doesn't want to participate?
You can start on your own. Many marriages restored through NMD began with just one spouse willing to do the work. Change in one person often opens the door to change in the whole relationship.
Is this only for believing couples?
No. The method is grounded in biblical principles, but it's also designed for those who don't identify as believers and simply want to save their marriage.
What if I don't see results?
There's no magic formula or guaranteed promise of reconciliation — every marriage and every heart is different. What I can offer you is a proven method, honest mentoring, and a clear path forward, regardless of your spouse's final decision.
Are the sessions confidential?
Yes. Everything you share in sessions is treated with complete discretion.
Are you a psychologist or a pastor?
No. I am neither an ordained pastor nor a psychologist — mentor is the best way to describe me: someone who has already been through this same battle in my own marriage and now walks alongside others on that same path, drawing from lived experience and a biblical method, not a clinical or pastoral title.
The first step is a conversation
In the diagnostic session we look at your situation together, honestly and in confidence, and you leave with a clear first step for your case. No further commitment.
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